We Revolved!

And once again I wait a ridiculous amount of time to post on my blog and I now have way too much to write. Will I ever learn? Let's hope so!

This has been an extremely busy week (as you can see by my lack of posts) and I have a million things running around in my head. I honestly feel like I hardly have time to breath, and I'm not really enjoying it. Its just that time of year, though, so I need to push through...and I will.

I really have a lot to share with you all, and I REALLY want to (honestly, more for me than for you, sorry. I have been so busy I haven't had a chance to really talk to anyone about things that are on my mind and my heart...which means you guys will get it soon! Be afraid...be very afraid...). Anyway, unfortunately its getting late and I don't have time to write everything I want (need) to. I do, however, have time to tell you about the Revolve Tour that several teens, leaders and I attended this weekend. (Okay, so I know there are other things I could talk about, but Carisa requested a Revolve post, and well I just can't say no to her!). :)

Revolve is a 2 day concert/event specifically seared toward teenage girls; challenging and encouraging them in their faith. Its basically Women of Faith for teen girls. Imagine 10,000 teenage girls in one auditorium. Scary? You have no idea...

We attend Revolve every year, usually making it a fun get together for our God's Girls, past and present. This was our 3rd year attending, and honestly I went into it with some reservations.

First, in the past 2 years there has been a lot of focus on having the right look. All of the speakers and singers on stage were dressed in the latest fashions with their hair and make up perfectly done. And other than Natalie Grant last year (who had just given birth to twins), not a single girl appeared to be larger than a size 4. This didn't seem to fit with all the talk about God loving you exactly how you are and finding your true identity in God, not the world. Many of the women on stage seemed to be conforming to the world.

There also seemed to be a big focus on relationships. I will never forget Tammy Trent's testimony at Revolve the first year, it spoke to my heart in a way few things ever have. I also remember Jenna Lucado's talk last year about fathers and the Father's heart for His daughters. Unfortunately, those talks were exceptions rather than the rule. Well, the lone guy speaker, Chad Eastham, is always memorable, funny and speaks truth. Still, the rest of the talks always seemed to follow this formula; "I was born, I went through some rough stuff, I accepted Christ, I met my husband and we are living happily ever after". I really felt like we were setting our girls up for some serious disappointment with that one.

And finally; I REALLY don't want to downplay the pain and struggle that women face when they struggle with anorexia or bulimia...but if one more skinny girl talks to me about her food struggles, I think I might scream.

So, I went into the Revolve not expecting much and actually pretty convinced that it would be our last year. Praise the Lord I was pleasantly surprised!!!

First, I couldn't even tell you which of the women were wearing makeup and which weren't. Some wore their hair in a pony tail, some down. They looked nice, but not overdone. It was as if they had gotten themselves ready instead of having a makeup artist do it. It was such a wonderful difference! They were all dressed nicely, but not necessarily in the latest fashions. I could actually believe that their outfits came out of their own closets instead of a wardrobe room.

Second, several of the speakers were single!! In fact, I only know that because they weren't wearing rings...there wasn't even one talk that involved relationships or "living happily ever after". The talks were all about the heart. God's incredible love and desire for your heart!!

Chad did talk about boys (that's kind of his role on the tour), but he did it in a way that spoke to the heart of each girl, not just her actions. He's always been good at that and this year was no different.

And this year no one talked about their eating disorder!! There were references to that being a possible struggle for the girls, but the focus was on God, not the struggle.

Of course, me being the horribly opinionated person that I am, I still didn't think it was perfect. The cost of everything boggles my mind. I question how all the commercialization of the event is honoring to God. I don't understand how an event that is focused on trying to get girls to see God before boys can have faint inducing boy bands perform. There are entirely too many pop culture references, and almost none of them relate to our girls. The event is very focused on suburban teens, although not so much that our girls don't love it.

All that aside, though, I think this was the best year yet.

Another thing that made this year so much fun was having so many former God's Girls there that are now teens. It was almost like a reunion with them. Revolve is designed for teen girls, but since Carisa and I lead the pre-teen girls Sunday School class we usually focus on the preteens that go. This year, though, I came to a revelation. For the most part, Revolve is over the heads of our preteens, but our teens are really starting to listen. It was really exciting to watch the teens tune in, and even more exciting to hear their thoughts on things afterwards. Several of them really felt like things that were spoken went straight to their heart.

The preteens were a different story. They spent about as much time in the bathroom during the talks as they spent in their seats. They did have fun, though, so it wasn't a total waste. Still, it was more than just fun for a lot of our teens, which is so exciting.

Realizing this led me to go ahead and decide to buy tickets for next year (you get the best price if you buy them at the tour). While Revolve isn't perfect, it does a pretty good job of reinforcing the things we teach the girls at God's Girls. So, if nothing else, its an amazing reminder that what we taught them wasn't just for the year or two that they were God's Girls, we are talking about their whole lives.

It's also really good for the girls to be in a place with 10,000 other girls who want to live their lives for Christ. In our neighborhood, these girls are often the only ones in their family/school/block trying to live for Christ. At Revolve, for once, they don't feel so alone, weird or out casted. Its a really great encouragement for them.

Revolve was a bigger deal for me this year because of Linda and Bonita. Linda is growing up (big time!) and is already being faced with a lot of choices that I have no control over. She literally has countless boys chasing after her and choosing to follow Christ is becoming harder and harder. I am SO thankful for the friends she has chosen at church, but she still is the one making the choices. I saw her listening and really paying attention this year at Revolve. There was a lot said in talks, in the dramas and even in the lyrics of many of the songs that I am praying will resonate in her mind as she faces challenges I can't even begin to understand. And Bonita; she is coming up right behind Linda. She isn't quite as physically developed as Linda (yet), but I believe that Linda's choices will have a HUGE impact on what path Bonita will follow.

Plus, I really enjoy having all the God's Girls together, they are a wonderful group of girls. Revolve is kind of like a yearly reunion for us. Based on this year, I will focus on inviting as many teens as I can and only a select few of preteens. The tickets are too expensive for girls who are only there for the concerts.

I came home from Revolve relieved, thankful, and hugely burdened. There is so much going on in our church with teen girls getting pregnant and my heart literally started to cry out for these girls. They have to stand strong in ways that none of us can understand. They have internal and external pressures that I can't fathom. They will not make it if they don't trust in the strength of Christ. I literally cried for their hearts, knowing that my tears were expressing the heart of their Father. They are beautiful and so loved...but God will continue to work to develop perseverance in them, and that will not be easy.

In all, the money and time spent was well worth it. God will complete the work He began in them...

And, we had a lot of fun. :)

We're Back

Well, we've been back for a few days but I have been so busy I haven't had time to write anything! This has been, and will be a very busy week for me with Reading Rocks starting as well as a group being here, and we have our block party on Saturday. I'm already tired...

Plus, unfortunately I returned to a horrific mess in my house that has taken me 2 days just to make liveable. The kittens created much poop that was never cleaned up, which has led to many flys and other bugs. And that's only the beginning,. I don't consider myself a neat freak by any stretch, but I can't live in the grossness that has become my house. I spent a good amount of time yesterday and today cleaning, so I'm feeling a lot better about things now.

My roommates from last summer, Jenna and Brooke, are here visiting for a few days and we have had a BLAST! We have had great conversations, yummy food and much laughter. And, they have very graciously helped with the cleaning. Jenna leaves tomorrow and Brooke on Wednesday, and I don't want either of them to go!!!

While the return to "normal" life has been busy for me, it has been even harder on the kids. They returned to the issues they had left behind, and they are having a hard time adjusting. For several of the kids, those issues greeted them at the door (actually, it was the lack of anyone to greet them that reminded them of their struggles). One set of kids came home to find a huge fight had broken out in their house while they were gone. Evidence of the fight was still all over the house, as well as bruises on her mom, brothers and sisters.

Another set of kids came back to discover that they were leaving in 3 days to spend the summer with their real parents...the ones they were taken away from several years ago because of the abuse they suffered. Another kid's pregnant sister tried to kill herself while we were away. This kid actually doesn't know this yet, but secrets can't be kept forever.

I know that all sounds kinda depressing, but that is the reality that these kids are living with. There is a part of me that wants to load them back into a van and head to VA for good. Of course, that would be teaching these kids to run from their problems rather than run TO JESUS with their problems. I don't want to do that...

So, please be praying for these kids as they readjust. And, please pray for me to be able to point them to Jesus and not help them run away.

Last Day

Today was our last day on vacation and while the kids are excited to get home and see their families, I am not ready to get back to work (although I do miss Gizmo).


WE had a very laid back day, hanging around the house and a bit at the beach. For the most part it was pretty calm, although we did start the day with some excitement...

Pillow fight!! It erupted spontaneously, but was hilarious and fun.





Most of us have been pretty beached out, so we didn't spend much time at the beach today. Thankfully, with movies, video games, board games, markers, nail polish and hair products, we were able to keep ourselves occupied all day.

Since tonight was our last night we decided to go out to dinner. Our original plan was to go to Macaroni Grill, however when we arrived we discovered that the power was out and they didn't know when they would be able to serve food again! So, we walked to several places around the Macaroni Grill only to find wait times of over 2 hours! As we headed back to the car to try and scout out some other possibilities, Pedro and Bonita noticed the lights seemed to be on at the Grill, so we checked one more time. Thankfully, the lights had just come back on and we were seated almost immediately! I think God did the power outage on purpose to clear out the restaurant so we wouldn't have to wait as long. :)

We all got dressed up for dinner, so before we left I wanted to take some nice pictures of everyone. As we were getting ready, however, a storm hit. I was so mad!! The only rain we had all week came right when I wanted to take pictures. God is so good, though, and as we were walking to the cars to go out to eat, the clouds parted and the sun came out!! So, we quickly ran to the beach to snap some pictures. We also have a really cool porch swing in front of our house, so I took some pictures there as well. I had to apologize to God because He obviously knew what He was doing. The lighting was great, and thanks to the rain, the beach was empty.

I have loaded all the pictures into my Phanfare site, and some of them actually look really good! I am hoping Carisa can edit them so they look even better and I will get a lot of them printed for myself and their families.

Here are some of my favorite individual pictures of each kid:


Pedro (and his million dollar smile)


Miguel


Tasha


Monique


Linda


Bonita



Luis


Zuley


Lindsay

Aren't they so beautiful and handsome?!?

After dinner we came back to the house to clean up, and decided to make some smores for dessert. Yummy!




We are heading out somewhat early in the morning, and I am hoping they will sleep most of the ride. I have a group coming in tomorrow, so I will literally get straight to work when I get back. On the bright side, my roommate from last summer, Brooke, is already in Philly for a visit and will be waiting for me when I get there. I am SO excited to see her!!!!!!

Still Perfect...Almost... :)

Today was another very low key day. We were all up pretty late last night with our dance competition, so most of us slept in (except of course Miguel...which means Lindsay didn't get to either). In fact, several people didn't even make it to the beach until almost 11.

At 1 we all got in the car and headed to our next surprise event. We went dolphin watching!! We boarded a boat and went on a 90 minute boat tour of the ocean to look for dolphins...and we saw some!! It was so exciting! We also saw some sting rays and jelly fish along the way (though we couldn't get any pics of the sting rays).





Unfortunately, the boat ride wasn't all great. Here is what we looked like when we came on board:


And this is what most of us looked like on the way back:



In fact; Zuley, Shera and Tasha were the only ones not looking like this by the time we were back on land. Thankfully, we were all feeling good when we saw the dolphins, so we were still able to enjoy that. However, while this was all the kids' first boat ride, it may also be their last.

The bright side of everyone feeling sick is that we were all pretty calm for most of the afternoon/evening. In fact, right now we are all watching an Animal Planet special on cats together, with several people dozing off. The living room in this house will fit all 11 of us, as long as we don't mind being close. :)

Tomorrow is our last day here, we leave early Saturday morning. This is the first time I have not been ready to get back to Philly! That may be because I brought a whole lot of Philly with me. :) Tomorrow we are spending the day at the beach and then dressing up to go out to a nice dinner together. The dinner will be to celebrate our final night together, as well as all the graduations we had last week. I'm so excited to see everyone dressed up!! Even the boys brought some of their nicest clothes! I am not looking forward to trying to get ready with 11 people and 2 bathrooms... :)

The introvert in me is CRAVING alone time, which is hard to come by in a house with 11 people. So, I will at least be excited for that on Saturday. Other than that, though, I am not ready to leave!!!!

Low Key

We had a very low key day here at the beach, but we all continue to love every second of this vacation.

This morning we all woke up and took our time eating breakfast, watching a little TV and then eventually trickling out to the beach as we felt like it.

What are we watching in this picture?

Super Why! Super Why is a kid's show that helps you learn to read, and we all enjoyed watching it together this morning. I thought that was funny. :)

The beach wasn't so much for for Lindsay today, she got a little sun burned. It really is as bad as it looks. I'm just glad she didn't have to deal with this while we were at Busch Gardens. We have put plenty of aloe on her back and we're praying it will heal quickly!!

At the beach today it seemed like everyone was much more interested in the sand than the waves. So, we decided to have a sand sculpture contest. I am SO impressed with their creativity! Shera didn't help them at all!!

Tasha, Linda, Miguel and Lindsay created this sunflower:


Bonita and Monique created this heart:


And Pedro and Luis made this turtle:


I was so impressed with all of them, I couldn't declare just one winner, so everyone won!!

We actually spent most of the afternoon/evening at the house playing hide and seek and then taking naps (well, I took a nap, haha). After dinner we watched "So You Think You Can Dance" together. While watching, we decided to hold our own So You Think You Can Dance.

All the kids came up with dances and performed them for me and Shera. Again, I was way too impressed with their creativity to declare one winner, but that didn't really matter, we all just had a lot of fun together!!


I know I have been sharing a lot about what we have been doing, but this vacation has been about so much more. Unfortunately, I haven't figured out how to put it into words yet. Actually, I haven't completely figured it all out yet.

Bonita and Monique have been inseparable all week and told me today that they are going to get the best friendship bracelets ever when we get back. The first few days we were here, Monique was pretty reserved, but in the last day or so she has just blossomed. I have known her for a little over 2 years now and I have NEVER seen her this happy...all the time. I hardly recognize her...this week she is showing me the kid I have always known was in her.

Linda and Pedro are teenagers now, and this week I am seeing just how much they have grown up. I am getting a glimpse of who they can be when they grow up, and I am so impressed.

We have 9 kids here...6 puerto rican, 2 black and 1 white...and to watch them together you would think they were actually a family that has grown up together. There are little fights here and there (which happens in families too), but overall they really enjoy one another and take care of each other. Everyone has been trying to help Lindsay with her sunburn. If Miguel can't reach something, no one makes fun of him, they just help him. When Tasha does something silly, everyone laughs and encourages her. When Monique dances, everyone cheers her on. I am just in awe.

My heart is stirred, and full. I have had plenty of people tell me that while I love these kids, it won't compare to the love I will have for my own kids. I don't know if I will ever get to test that theory, but right now I just don't believe it. I am SURE I will love my own kids in ways I never imagined, but I just can't even describe how I feel about these kids. And its okay with me if no one else understands that, I don't really think I do either, haha. I just know I am blessed, and so thankful for that.

Where did we go today?

Busch Gardens!! We spent all day (11 hours total!) at Busch Gardens, Williamsburg, a theme park about 45 minutes from where we are staying. We didn't tell the kids anything (actually, we told them we were going on an all day hay ride, but I don't think they ever bought it), and they were so surprised, and SO excited!!



It was pretty hot all day, but thankfully Tuesdays are a GREAT day to go to Busch Gardens. We hardly had any wait time in lines, which was awesome.


Busch Gardens is great because its not a huge theme park, but has plenty to keep you busy. There are 5 major roller coasters, and several of our kids rode all 5! I was so proud of them! Bonita, Linda, Monique, Pedro and Lindsay (yes, the same Lindsay who wouldn't even go on the Log Flume last summer) rode all 5 of the coasters, including Apollo's Chariot 3 times in a row!! (They didn't feel so great after that, haha).

This ride is called the Griffon and has two 220 foot drops at a 90 degree angle. It was crazy!!


Escape from Pompeii (the one pictured below) was the only ride that all 11 of us rode together, and we all loved it. Miguel isn't much for rides (he is terrified of heights), but he isn't really tall enough to ride much anyway. He was GREAT today, though, as I gave him the job as map-keeper and route planner. He and I had several "meetings" throughout the day to discuss our next plans. When Shera and I were discussing changing some of the plans (we were all getting tired), Miguel announced; "Okay, we'll make this one change, but then we have to stick to the plan. I don't like it when people change the plan". I want him to lead mission trips someday. :)

Tasha rode every ride she was tall enough for, including the Alpengeist and the Big Bad Wolf. She is so brave!! Luis, Zuley, Shera and I rode a lot of the rides but we all kinda took turns hanging out with Miguel and Tasha (when she wasn't tall enough for a ride). I really enjoyed hanging out with those two kids, they are hilarious. I wish everyone else got to see the Tasha I see. Around most people she is really shy and quiet, but that's not really her at all. She's actually very talkative, silly, giggly, clever and fun!

In the middle of the day we took a break to eat a yummy picnic lunch that we packed the night before. Then, it was quickly back to the park where we stayed until it closed.

One of our favorite things was the 4-D adventure "ride" called the Dark Kastle. We felt like we were flying through a haunted house being attacked by creatures, but we never left the room. :) This was the only other thing that we all went on together, although we stayed as a group all day which led to even more fun as everyone shared exciting experiences.



By far our favorite part of the day, however, was the Pet Shenanigans show we got to see. They had trained cats, dogs, ducks, pigs, and even mice put on an amazing show for us. It was so cute!

They even had this parrot that did math!! Seriously! They had people from the audience shout out math problems. Then the parrot would walk to the number that was the answer and flip it over. He did addition, subtraction, multiplication and division! It was great!



By the end of the day, we all looked like this:


Okay, Shera and I didn't look like that (we had to drive), but we certainly felt like it!! All the kids are passed out asleep and I don't expect them to be up too early (except Miguel, he is always an early riser...then he wakes Lindsay up and they have breakfast together before all the other kids get up. I think that is so sweet!).

We all had a GREAT day though. As we were leaving the park I asked the kids if any of them were ready to go back to Philly...and I got a very resounding NO! They are ready to get back to the beach though. :)

Tomorrow will just be a relaxing day at the beach. We have a few more exciting things planned for the week, but we need a day to chill after all the excitement of today!

Another GREAT day!!

This vacation continues to be incredible!! I'm not exaggerating at all, we are all having so much fun!!

This morning almost everyone slept in a bit (which means til 9 a.m.).

That is really how we found Monique sleeping this morning!!

We discovered two very rare animals today. I believe this is the first time either of these animals has been photographed.

First, we have the Miguelito Burrito. I know it sounds like food, but it is in fact a very mobile, worm-like creature. Here is a rare picture of the creature:

Next, in the water we found the incredible rare Tali-shark (Tali and Tasha's nickname). This shark can be scary at first, but is a pretty docile creature.


We again spent a good amount of the day on the beach and in the water.




The kids also very much enjoy the sand, creating many things. Here is Tasha trying to keep the water away from Pedro's artwork. :)


What was he making? A sand nose!


Pedro and Zuley also made a sand frog:


After dinner, we went out for a special treat:

We found a Rita's in VA!! It was a nice reminder of home, and very yummy. :)

Tomorrow we are heading out in the morning for a day trip. We will be gone all day, and the kids have no idea what we're doing. You'll have to check back tomorrow to find out! :)

(*I have loaded all my pictures...I'm up to almost 400!...on my Phanfare site, if you want to see everything!!).